Salutations!
I've been here for a little over a week, and I occasionally find myself feeling very envious of others here. Even some Steemians that have been here for about the same short amount of time I've been here arouse a bit of jealousy.
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Every time it happens to me, I steer my thoughts away toward constructive, optimistic paths. For example:
- I'm not talented enough
- This takes too much effort and time
- People will never like me
I turn these into:
- I'm going to improve myself every day!
- Work at your own pace, this isn't a race
- Be yourself: insincerity is as obvious as a bucket of skunks
You may not be in control of your feelings, but they all pass.
You do have control over your thoughts; your thoughts will influence your feelings.
"You think your feelings are real, but they’re not. Trust me. It’s like… the sky is blue, right? But when there are clouds, you think it’s grey. But really, it’s still blue. It hasn’t changed. It’s just covered with grey clouds passing by. Now, the clouds are your feelings. The sky is how it really is. Your clouds will pass by."
Suzanne - Orange is the New Black
Keep it up, Steemers!
