Dear Steemit is a weekly contest in search of the best advise on a given situation.

Another call for help this week! This time we have a troubled parent unsure of which to choose- parental presence or financial stability?

Dear Steemit,

I'm a solo parent of a wonderful child. I'm super hands-on when it comes to my child's development, as I deem it important to maximize these early years in her life. We live with my mom, and being the sole provider in the house, we are not in the best situation financially, living by the paycheck.

I was offered a high-paying job overseas, a three-year contract that would amount to ten times my current salary. Had I been childless, no questions asked, I'll accept the offer in a heartbeat. But a big part of me do not want to miss any of her milestones. I don't want her to feel abandoned,as I am the only parent she knows. I worry about my mom too as she is not getting any younger.

I honestly don't know what to do, what do yo think?

All the best,
Mr. SepAnx

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Most of us may have found ourselves in a position where we have to make tough decisions, and we seek other's counsel to help us in our decision-making. Dear Steemit aims to be a venue for this- the scenarios may be real-life experiences, or theoretical, that most people may relate to. If you have a challenging situation to share and would wish for the Steemit community's advise, feel free to message me via discord or steemit chat, username dreamiely.

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